8 psychological tricks so that people like you faster
28 Mar 2024Updated: 4 hours ago | 52 people are reading
© Patricia Rehe / HH 8 psychological tricks so that people like you faster
We like it when other people like us. Often that happens automatically, but if it doesn't work for a while then there are plenty of psychological tricks that can help you. Science says you should keep these eight things in mind:
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We prefer people who are like us. By subtly imitating the body language and language of your conversation partner, you will achieve a connection sooner.
Don't give too many compliments
People like you best when you start with a compliment, but also dares to say something negative. They feel that they have won you over, but they also believe that you are honest.
Tell something personal
Dare to be vulnerable by telling something personal . It invites the other person to do the same, which strengthens and deepens the relationship.
Let the other person talk
In the end, people only have one favorite topic of conversation, and they are themselves. So let the other person tell you a lot about themselves and he or she will undoubtedly like you (or if you also like the other person is a second one).
Be funny
Not everyone is born with a great sense of humor, but saying something funny sometimes, helps with mutual contact. After all, we don't like boring people so much.
Search for shared values ??
If there is a big difference in political preference, it makes no sense to start a discussion about this when you meet each other barely know yet. It is better to look for things that you do share, for example your taste in music.
Be cheerful
No one is happy about whining. If you want to be liked, put on your cheerful face, laugh a lot and talk enthusiastically.
Spend time together
Simply by spending more time together, you get to know each other nicer find. Many of your current friends also came across your path by chance. You are not friends with them, because they are the nicest person ever.
Source (s): IFL Science