These lies can kill your relationship
13 Apr 2021Updated: 4 hours ago | people are reading
© Shutterstock Lying to your partner is already unwise, but the following lies are extra harmful.
How honest are you to your partner? Although you may be completely open with each other, it is easier said than done to never lie to your great love. If you do this, make sure that it is not one of the following lies:
Debt is a topic, but it is better not to hide it. You may also prefer not to say how much that new nice dress really cost, but be careful with this. Many couples argue over money so be careful not to get caught on lies about income and expenses. Moreover, your partner is not stupid and knows more than you think.
If your partner quickly becomes jealous, then you may prefer to tell as little as possible about friendly agreements. Especially if you are going to drink a cup of coffee with someone of the gender that you like, you may be afraid to tell your partner. If you get caught, you really give your partner a reason to be jealous, because why would you hide it if you didn't do anything wrong? If your partner cannot accept that you have certain friends, it is better that your partner adjusts instead of you lying. Another related tip: never secretly maintain contact with an ex. This is twice as bad as secret contact with friends.
It is very difficult if you and your partner both think differently about having children. For example, if you do not want children and your partner does, you may not dare say this. Because what if your partner does not want to continue with you? Do not lie to your partner or yourself by saying that you want it later, when you actually do not know this. Be mature and tell your partner what you really think about it. If you don't, this can lead to a big fight that can destroy your relationship.
It is important that you are honest about what you like and dislike about sex. For example, don't lie by saying that your partner is doing something really well, while you actually don't like it. Your sex life will suffer from this and this puts your relationship at risk. It is often uncomfortable to tell your partner that you did not like something, but it is many times better than the alternative.