This makes people think that you are not interested

17 Jun 2021Updated: 4 hours ago | 52 people are reading

This makes people think that you are not interested

© Shutterstock Are you sending the wrong signals?

Do you feel that you are ready for a new relationship, but no one notices when you try to make it clear that you like them? Sometimes this has to do with unknowingly giving you the wrong impression, which makes people think that you don't want a relationship yet.

You don't make yourself vulnerable

You avoid personal questions because you ask yourself not vulnerable. By only talking about cows and calves, you give the impression that you do not want to be too close with someone. This makes it difficult to take the next step.

Talk about your ex

Do you still regularly talk about how nice your ex's life was, or how bad it was? By talking about this, you often get the feeling that you are still processing a previous relationship. They may be afraid to start something with you, because there is still a chance that you will return to your ex.


One moment you are very flirty, the other moment sad and then spontaneous again. If you are not consistent, people often find it difficult to gauge you. They therefore assume that you are not interested.

If you find it hard to show in deeds that you like someone, there is sometimes nothing else but to say it directly. That way you know that you will not be misunderstood.