You will never make a slip again
17 Jun 2021Updated: 4 hours ago | people are reading
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It is sometimes said that if you cheated once, there is a good chance that it will happen again. That may also be true, but this does not mean that you can never improve yourself. Do you really regret your slip and want to prevent it in the future? Then try the following.
Talk to your partner
If you feel the urge to cheat and have really done it in the past, be honest with you partner. Hiding your feelings for your partner creates more distance between you, which may only increase your chances of cheating.
Don't play with fire
Never flirt with people that you find attractive. You may think that nothing will happen, but it is precisely this thought that you are not well prepared if something does happen. You are probably curious and therefore find it difficult not to respond if you receive a private message on social media from a handsome boy, but if you no longer want to cheat, you should stop these temptations as soon as possible.
Everyone has their weaknesses and we all deal with them in different ways. Don't be stubborn in thinking that you can solve your great weakness yourself, especially if it keeps going wrong. It is really not surprising to call in a therapist because you are cheating. It may feel like a sign of weakness, but it only makes you stronger in the end.